“With all of the information that’s readily available online, and the resources you have at your disposal in the form of friends and family who have managed to help their kids sleep well, why would you want to invite a stranger into your home to get your child ‘sleeping through the night’?”
I don’t often hear this question phrased exactly that way, but I know it’s a concern that a lot of parents have when they’re thinking about getting some professional help with their little ones’ sleep habits.
And it’s a valid question! After all, your mother managed to get you to sleep at some point. Your friend might have four kids who are all champion sleepers, so she should have some answers for you, right?
Well, yes! At least they might. But then again, they might not.
And let me be the first to say, if you’ve got someone who can help you in this situation, take it, use it, be open minded to their help and suggestions. After all, we’re all trying to save our money where we can, so if you can remedy the problem without paying for it, I’m all for that option.
Most of the time though, my clients are parents who have already tried that route and found it wasn’t successful, and there are dozens of reasons why that might happen.
The biggest reason why the solutions that work for one parent don’t work for another is simple. They’re not dealing with the same baby.
Some babies are heavily reliant on sleep props. Others can’t sleep in a room that’s too warm. Some may not be getting enough daytime sleep, and others too much. This baby might have developed an association between feeding and falling asleep, whereas that one might be ready to drop their second daytime nap.
And, of course, it could be any combination of all of the above, or the many other ‘things’ which result in sleep being difficult for your child. I should say it is not that your child is having a sleep problem, it is more that the conditions are not right for sleep to come naturally from them.
Adding to the challenge is the fact that most suggestions don’t work overnight, so parents might try a suggestion that could potentially help baby start sleeping better, but abandon it before it takes effect due to not knowing if it is working or the right thing to do and then moving into the next suggestion and so on.
In short, sleep is a complicated issue and there’s very rarely one single thing that can remedy the situation overnight.
A professional sleep consultant has the experience and training to recognise which problems result in specific symptoms, and can work with you to develop a personalised plan for your child that addresses those individual issues. They can also provide some much needed support when things don’t seem to be working, and give you the encouragement you need to follow through on that plan until it starts to work.
Consider the example of a personal trainer. You could just get some dumbbells and watch some YouTube videos in order to get in shape, so why pay someone to guide you along?
Well, because they’re able to give you solid advice based on education and experience, they can help to keep you motivated, and they know how to respond to the problems that might arise when it comes to your specific situation.
So when it comes to baby’s sleep, I hope for everyone to find success on their own, and with as few problems as possible. But if that doesn’t happen for you, a professional consultant has the answers and support you need.
The best way to see if I can help you, is to book a call with me, that way I can assess your situation and tell you about my packages and which one is right for you.